The biggest "makeover" tool you have is your focus. Put down the phones, lock the door, and be ruthlessly present with each other.
Ready to shake things up? If you want to transform your sex life starting tonight, forget the long-term therapy and start with these immediate, high-impact shifts: 1. Change the Scenery Make Over Your Sex Life . . . Tonight!
Tonight, make the goal something other than just "finishing." Focus on . If you usually follow a specific script, flip it. Use a toy, try a new lubricant, or spend an extra 20 minutes on oral or manual stimulation before "the main event." 5. Talk (Even if it’s Awkward) The biggest "makeover" tool you have is your focus
Don’t wait for a lightning bolt of horniness to strike. For many, desire is , meaning it shows up after the physical touch starts. Commit to 10 minutes of low-pressure physical intimacy—massages, heavy making out, or skin-to-skin cuddling—and see where your body takes you. 3. Focus on the "Mental Foreplay" If you want to transform your sex life
"...because it makes me feel so connected to you."