Bonding over a common enemy or a similar past.

Before the first date, define the "why" behind their connection.

Social class, rival families, or long-distance jobs.

A romance without conflict is just a diary entry. Use these to keep them apart:

The moment they are forced together (the "forced proximity" trope). 📈 The Arc of Intimacy

One character shares a secret or weakness. The First Threshold: A touch, a look, or a near-miss kiss.

Don't say they love each other; show one character remembering how the other takes their coffee.

High trust, but high risk of losing the friendship. 💡 Quick Tips for Realism